Pinning Perfection: Your guide to Boutonnière placement

Whether you’re the groom, a groomsman, or a guest, wearing a boutonnière correctly can make a big difference in your overall appearance.

Let’s explore how to properly wear and affix a boutonnière, including the latest trend of pocket flower boutonnières and ideas for personalising your boutonnière with unique accessories.

How to attach a boutonnière

Choose the right flowers: Opt for small, elegant flowers like roses, orchids, or hydrangeas, that complement the floral and colour scheme, and your attire.

Positioning the boutonnière: Traditionally, the boutonnière is worn on the left lapel of a suit jacket, positioned just above the buttonhole and slightly angled for visibility.

Securing the boutonnière:

1. Pin Method: Hold the flower in place with your left hand and use a small, sharp pin to affix it through the stem and the lapel fabric. Make sure to pin through the jacket’s lining for extra stability, and press the pin flat against the fabric.

2. Magnetic Fasteners: For a damage-free option, ask your florist to use magnetic fasteners. Place one magnet behind the lapel and the other on the outside to hold the boutonnière in place securely.

3. Adjust and Straighten: Ensure the boutonnière is positioned correctly and not drooping or leaning. Adjust as needed to keep it looking sharp.

The New Trend: Pocket Flower Boutonnières

Pocket flower boutonnières are a stylish alternative to traditional lapel boutonnières. They’re designed to be placed in the pocket of a suit jacket, adding a modern twist to your look.

Select a design: Choose a pocket flower boutonnière that features a small floral arrangement or a single bloom, often with decorative elements like feathers or ribbon.

Place in the pocket: Insert the boutonnière into the suit pocket so it’s visible and slightly angled outward. This design element offers a sophisticated flair without the need for pins.

Secure if necessary: Some designs include a small clip or loop to secure the boutonnière inside the pocket, preventing it from shifting. Use this feature if available to keep the boutonnière in place.

Personalising Your Boutonnière

Adding a personal touch to your boutonnière can make it even more special! Here are a few ideas:

Unique accessories: Incorporate small, meaningful items into the boutonnière. For example, a tiny wrench or tool can be attached to reflect a groom's profession or hobbies. To do this, secure the accessory with a discreet pin or attach it to the flower using floral wire.

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Custom embellishments: Personalise with small touches like custom ribbons, initials, or charms that reflect personal interests or family heritage. Ensure these additions are subtle and don’t overwhelm the boutonnière’s primary floral design.

Fabric or Colour choices: Choose a flower or accessory that reflects personal style or significant relationships. For instance, using flowers from a family garden or a meaningful colour can add an extra layer of significance.

Final Tips

Coordinate with the Wedding theme: Ensure your boutonnière or pocket flower complements the wedding’s colour palette, florals, and overall theme.

Wear it with confidence: Whether you choose a traditional boutonnière, a pocket flower, or a personalised touch, wear it with pride and confidence!